I am not asking my mother to support me my husband and my child. I am asking for help or understanding. I know that I made an agreement with her about the rent and I intend to uphold it..but the one person I expect understanding from is my mother. I'd like to say I need an extra week to pay and she be ok..maybe not happy but ok. All I have ever asked for is a little gas money, a little food etc. I have been married 13 years and have had help a total of 5 years. (if you add all the times together.)

When, or if the time comes I will help my daughter...if she is a bummm and does not work, then she will get little to no help. I help those who help themselves. I will even let her live with me if necessary, and if I have the space.

It is not my moms fault...how she raised me...no. This is my problem and I am getting better as time goes on. I feel that this would not have happened if I had my income taxes.

Anyway, no matter how you feel or your thoughts or openions I welcome all comments and advice.