Most times when I get around my mother I feel like I am five years old...I feel like a bummm and a baby. Sometimes my mom only sees my faults and not the few things I have done well/right. I have come a long way in the past year or two and I FEEL like sometimes she just dosen't give me any credit. I try not and will not compare my husbands fanmily to mine, mainly becouse his mother has passed. BUTTTT, they did not judge me....they said, You owe us some money, you will pay when you can. My rent that I pay my mother goes into a savings account untill the taxes or insurance is due. Its not like she has to pay her personal bills with my rent.....Still I am a bummmm for being late. I feel like I am always being judged. My husband works hard too, he does not do too many house chores but he provides money....Without his help the car insurance would have not been paid.

I am not saying I am a perfect mother, I am not! But, I will be respectful to my daughter if she ever has any financial problems. I will know where she is comming from becouse I have been there. I will make her feel comfortable to come and talk to me and I will listen or help or whatever is needed at the time. Sometimes I feel like a stranger in my mothers home.

How much help (financial) should a parent give an adult child?? Would you be understanding or bothered that you had to bail your child out of THEIR mess??? Would you place limits on the amount of help you give?? Or would it be If I have it and it dosen't hurt me its yours???????????????

Someone please respond

last night I wanted to come on here and vent, gripe, bitch...I work my assss off and still never seem to have enough money. My husband works hard too. It sucks. I am just unhappy. I want my tax money now!!!!! I may not pay all of this months rent and have to explain why to my mother. I am nervous...gas prices suck. They will be at or over 4 dollars by Monday. They climb 5 to 10 cents A DAY. I am just so bummed. First my tv died then we had a tire die. WE HAD to replace the tire, it was a matter of safety. I am just so unhappy right now. I want my money!!!! We work and never get ahead. I'm just in a mood, I'll try to be positive later....

its as old as time...the stay at home mom verses the working mom. Its not so bad on dads, they are expected to work. But moms, they kinda have a choice. well...sometimes. Depending on money. This summer I will be torn between my job and my family. My husband wants me off on Saturday so I can watch our daughter SOOOO I feel torn. Every six months to a year I want to stop (or start) working. I am feeling burnt out and tired. I don't know what to do, I just hope I have plenty of babysitters and everything goes smooth. I'll talk more later....I have a headache

I could not think of a title....Monday, Memorial day, is my daghters 10th birthday. I am not working, but we are probably not doing much. I am broke. Her Aunt is sending her some money so I know of one present she will get. If her dad dad does not work she and I may go to the park...depends if we have a car or not. I am off work next Saturday, my husbands birthday.

not much going on in my little world. Still waiting for my income tax. The kittens are doing good. Joe is doing well...The other two babies are groing big too.

well, we had no choice...we got the tire fixed. We got $100 from my dad and got a new tire...no used ones available. $82....I now owe my dad $250 Wednesday. Thats ok. The rest of my check will go to Wal-Mart and FOOD!!!! Hubby will make good money Wed. so we should have his boss and my dad paid back then. We should be ok.

Life happens weather ya want it to or not. (sucksssss)